What happens when your man’s sex drive is lower than yours

What many do not know is that men love sex. Low sex drive is a normal part of life, irrespective of your gender or relationship status. A lot of things can affect our desire to nack (have sex) ranging from our hormones and mental health down to medication.

Low libido has been discovered to occur in men. According to a 2012 survey by the International Society for Sexual Medicine says that one on every four men experiences a low sexual desire.

Placed side by side with the libido of women, Dr. Irwin Goldstein, one of the study’s authors and director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in San Diego, says “nearly 30 per cent of women say they’re more interested in sex than their male partner.”

Things that happen when your man’s sex drive is lower than yours

1. Low self esteem

Men love to pride in their sexual abilities. And when a man is not delivering, or he releases too early he starts to feel less of himself. Sometimes, the man may feel less interested in having physical intimacy with the lady. What will you do when faced with such a situation?

2. Tension and resentment

When your sex drive or libido is higher than that of your man, Feeling unwanted and having sexual tension is one of the things that you are likely to deal with.

This can create tension, resentment and other bitter, toxic forms of energy in the relationship.

3. Toys is my solution

YOu can try the use of sexual toys to arouse his sex drive through foreplay. you may need to be intentional about how to taunt sexually. Experiment, be patient or find alternatives.

4. Do not take it personal

5. Insecurities

You can help him feel like “I WANT to have sex with him”, and this helps him get over his insecurities.